Are You Raising Assholes? Let's Find Out. . .

Today's increasingly permissive culture allows the behaviors we tolerate in our children to significantly shape their identities and interactions with the world. While it's natural for children to express themselves, drawing a line between healthy expression and unacceptable misbehavior is crucial. Reflecting on my parenting practices, I am compelled to ask: am I enabling my child’s potential disrespectfulness, unwittingly molding them into the very type of person I would prefer they not become?

Misbehavior often presents itself as cute or funny, especially at a young age. A spontaneous outburst at dinner or a defiant retort may elicit laughter rather than correction. It is easy to dismiss these moments as mere expressions of individuality, but I have come to realize that they are, in fact, telltale signs of deeper behavioral patterns. The fleeting amusement derived from these antics can cloud clarity about the importance of proper conduct. Such indulgence in unruly behavior fosters an environment where disrespect is normalized, and the repercussions of such tolerance become more apparent as children grow.

If you are unsure of what that entails, reflect on your parenting and ask yourself: are my kids scared of me? (not by your mere presence, but are they scared of disappointing you by not living up to your expectations) If not, you're doing it wrong. If they are insolent, especially from when they're little, you've got a growing problem on your hands. There's just no other way of putting it. Most of the time, problematic children either gravitate to criminals or satanic idolatry. In this world wide web era, all info about every and anything can be accessed by kids. The ones that seek out devil related lifestyles almost always end up mixed up with other lost innocents mimicking occultism for shock value.

One of the most critical aspects of parenting involves setting boundaries. When I observe my child interrupting adults, rolling their eyes, or using unsavory language, I am faced with two choices: to correct the behavior or laugh it off as innocence. In moments of weakness, I have succumbed to the allure of humor, thinking, “Oh, they’re just being funny!” The immediate gratification of laughter, however, can lead to long-term consequences. Normalizing these actions might suggest to my child that such behavior is acceptable and that respect for others is secondary to their whims.

Furthermore, the influence of peers cannot be overlooked. Children absorb social cues like sponges, often mirroring the attitudes and behaviors seen among their friends. If I allow my child to engage in disrespectful conduct, I place them at risk of being perceived as a troublemaker by their peers and educators. This could lead to isolation rather than inclusion, as children with poor social behaviors often struggle to form positive relationships. By working to correct these behaviors rather than condoning them, I empower my child to cultivate healthy social relationships marked by respect and kindness.

Remember, there are no scapegoats when raising kids. WE ARE DIRECTLY RESPONSIBLE FOR HOW THEY TURN OUT. WHAT WE IGNORE, WRITE-OFF, AND / OR NEGLECT MATTERS! Self-reflection is key in this process. I must evaluate my own responses to my child's antics. While I do prioritize their growth into respectful (and respectable) individuals, my responsibility as a parent extends beyond upholding rules; it encompasses instilling values that will serve my child long into adulthood. A child who feels free to express themselves while simultaneously understanding the power of respect will navigate life’s challenges with greater ease. It's just common sense.

When presented with the slightest glimpse of a bad influence, it's up to me to step in to discourage those kinds of associations. Giving rewarding incentives for keeping good grades is one thing, but to step up and be the "attitude adjuster" and teaching what isn't taught in classrooms is where your parenting is crucial. There is no other way. YOU ARE NOT THEIR FRIEND, YOU ARE THEIR GUARDIAN, BENEFACTOR AND DISCIPLINARY INSTRUCTOR! This is what it takes to be a parent. It's been proven that without these foundations your children WILL grow into inconsiderate, shallow, useless, and deplorable adults.

In conclusion, raising a child involves more than simply responding to their immediate needs or laughing off their playful disregard for authority. It requires a delicate balance of nurturing self-expression and demanding respect for others. As I reflect on my parenting choices, I recognize the importance of addressing misbehavior head-on, ensuring that I am not inadvertently raising a little mother fucker. Instead, I aspire to guide my child toward becoming a compassionate, respectful individual, well-equipped to thrive in a complex and diverse society.

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