Get Ya Feet Wet - Interactions with New Yorkers

Want to try to master the NYC vibe? Take a peek at this comedic guide for interacting with New Yorkers and experiencing the best of all FIVE boroughs! Yes, you read that right, tourists.... VISIT ALL FIVE BOROUGHS. What's the point in coming here to just "play it safe"?! Live a little!

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I.Burke

9/24/2024

I’d like to take a few moments to address something that’s become all too common: the curious case of spotting a New Yorker in your home state. Yes, we’re out there, and yes, we can see you gawking from a mile away.

Now, first things first, let’s get something straight. If you encounter a New Yorker, I urge you: **please, for the love of bagels and pizza, do not act like a giddy school kid on a field trip to the big city!** Seriously, it’s like walking into a petting zoo and shouting, “Oh my gosh, look at the unicorn!” when you spot a guy with a strut & a Yankees cap. Friends, this is a New Yorker, not an exotic animal exhibit!

We know we're loud, stylish & brave & we own up to it all. So what? It’s part of our charismatic charm & when a New Yorker relocates, we don’t shed our identities like a snake shedding skin. It's embedded! We bring New York with us. Like that catchy commercial says, “New York never sleeps.” Well, guess what? It holds true because we don't. We can't be scammed, because we think fast & trust me, if you encounter someone who hails from Brooklyn or the Bronx, they’re not just bringing their oversized jackets; they’re packing a whole attitude.

The Art of Respectful Curiosity

Now, curiosity is a beautiful thing, but there's an art to it. Imagine you’re in line at the coffee shop, and you suddenly spot a New Yorker ahead of you. Instead of leaning over and asking, “So, what’s the secret to New York bagels?”—first off, how dare you?

Instead, try approaching it with some finesse. Maybe you say, “Hey, I’ve heard New York has some killer bagels. What’s your go-to spot?” That opens up a conversation without making them feel like they’re under a microscope.

And for those of you who venture close to a Bronx accent, remember: at least two shades of composure, please! There’s a reason people talk about Bronx tough, and trust me, you don’t want a slice of that attitude directed your way just because you couldn’t resist joking about how they must be related to rappers. Wrong move, buddy!

Bonds Beyond Borders. . .

Here’s another thing to keep in mind: New Yorkers are often good for a laugh, and they love humor. So, if you’re nervous about saying the wrong thing, simply lead with your own experiences. “You know, back in my hometown, we have a totally different vibe. We have an all-you-can-eat spaghetti night every Thursday!” Remember, bonding over food is universal—just keep in mind that asking about another states' pizza, competitiveness can spark...let's just say, lively disputes!

In many ways, New Yorkers are the ambassadors of their city. Each time they share their stories with you, they’re giving you a tiny glimpse into a world that’s bustling, chaotic, and vibrant. So, enjoy each interaction! After all, isn’t life all about learning from one another?

A Lesson in New York Grit

Let’s paint a picture here. You spot a Brooklynite, right? First of all, tread lightly. This person has seen things—things you can’t even imagine most of which are common occurrences that they've become accustomed to. dodging rats the size of small dogs while navigating their way through the subway. Personalities colliding, fights happening, (even debates over which pizza joint reigns supreme can go south if someone says something out of pocket.) They’ve probably been splashed by a cabs, regularly awakened by sirens & maybe even lived by a train station. So when you ask, “How do you handle all that noise?” you might as well be saying, “How do you breathe?” Instead of turning into a wide-eyed tourist, just embrace the grit, mang. Say something like, "hello". Avoid the ogle cause we damn sure don't like that shit. And don't try to compete— you will lose. Just be normal. It goes a long way.

Now, that’ll get you somewhere. You're showing an appreciation for the panache they’ve cultivated living amongst skyscrapers and public housing. Trust me, they will appreciate your effort to understand "The New Yorker".

Let’s wrap this up with some signs that you’re indeed face-to-face with a true New Yorker:

1. The Hand Gesture: If you see someone using their hands more than a conductor leading an orchestra, congrats, you’ve met a New Yorker. This is all part of the communication package—just roll with it.

2. The Caffeine Dependency: Ya'll know it's expensive af to living here so, a lot of us got side hustles, second jobs & whatnot. Actual sleep is a friggin' luxury so, yea If we insist on ordering our cawfee in a specific way— light-n-sweet, black no sugar—you best believe it better be strong and it better fresh. Yup, cafe con leche is my personal go-to and like many others trying to keep up with the grind, it's definitely a New Yorkers necessity.

3. The Confident Stroll: If they have a strut that suggests they could confidently cross five lanes of traffic without breaking a sweat, you’re definitely talking to a New Yorker. Feel free to complement their daring style (preferably without gawking).

A Final Thought

As we conclude, let’s agree on a simple rule: when you encounter a New Yorker, treat them as a friend rather than a novelty item. We’re not a traveling circus act, folks. We bring with us a spirit of adventure, passion, and maybe a sprinkle of chaos—but that’s what makes us unique.

So, next time you spot a New Yorker doing New York things in your home state, just remember we live life to the fullest and we're packed with stories, attitudes, and a heart full of gumption—no admittance fee required!

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