The women's movement has been in circulation since 1848, often attributed to a pivotal moment when women collectively began rising against entrenched societal norms, particularly those dictated by masculine dominance. However, what is frequently overlooked is that the majority of these women were themselves raised within a system that conditioned them to be illiterate, dependent, and, at best, auxiliary figures to their male counterparts—child bearers and homemakers, confined to domestic roles.
Over time, these very women gave birth to and nurtured generations of similar women, despite living in an era of rapid evolution and industrialization. This ingrained mentality did little to advance women’s position in society, particularly during the 19th century—a period marked by both tribulation and innovation. As the adage goes, "necessity is the mother of invention," yet many women remained bound to outdated ideals that rendered them unprepared for progress. Furthermore, while advocating for equality, some displayed behaviors that were counterproductive, even combative resorting to actions that strained the movement’s credibility. It is often said, "never bite the hand that feeds you," yet throughout history and into modern times, this very dynamic has played out, sometimes to the detriment of progress.
True masculinity thrives when paired with a woman who embodies intelligence, strength, and elegance—not someone who is submissive to the point of irrelevance. In reality, no man of substance wants a useless, directionless companion. A woman who carries herself with dignity and purpose inspires a man to be greater, just as a man of integrity and strength motivates a woman to flourish.
The erosion of traditional values has left a void where courtliness and mutual respect once existed. Men are not seeking mindless, dependent figures; they desire partners who challenge them, refine them, and contribute meaningfully to their lives. When women embrace their own power—without sacrificing grace or virtue—men are more inclined to rise to the occasion, reviving chivalry, responsibility, and leadership in a way that benefits both parties.
This isn’t about reverting to the past but about creating a new and improved standard of decency—one where both men and women hold themselves to higher expectations, fostering relationships built on respect, admiration, and purpose. Ultimately, the focus should be on raising decent, kind, and productive individuals while prioritizing the well-being of one’s spouse and family. After all, a harmonious household breeds a stronger society—"Happy spouse, happy house."
