Respecting Your Man: The Lost Art of Womanhood

And speaking of motherhood, let’s clear up a few myths. First, no one forced you to keep that baby—abortion, adoption, and contraception exist. Second, children are indeed like pets: their behavior is a direct reflection of their upbringing. If your kid is a nightmare, it's likely a you problem. Children emulate and the apple doesn't fall far from the tree. Thirdly, your body will change whether you birth a baby or not. So, quit blaming pregnancy for those love handles and embrace gravity, girlfriend.

For those women who don't become mothers: Welcome to the man’s world—where the pressure of being a provider and protector falls on you should you choose to be single. You don’t get to complain about "not catching a break" because guess what? That’s been the male reality since the dawn of time. Despite what society tries to sell you, a woman is designed to be a wife, and once married, her husband becomes her first and only priority. That doesn’t mean she gives herself away freely with no return—that’s unrequited love, and no one is advocating for that. But in a healthy, functional relationship, both partners play a role. Your husband provides the kind of masculine stability we need, and we, in turn, provide the feminine presence that suits his needs in particular.

It’s a partnership—one hand washes the other, and both wash the face. That’s just common sense.
Somewhere along the way, humility became taboo. But knowing your role in life is not weakness—it’s wisdom. Respecting your man, uplifting him, and standing beside him doesn’t make you less of a woman; it makes you exalted as the realest woman in his life.

The sooner modern women let go of that toxic, misguided perception of power and replace it with docility, grace, and a concise understanding of their role, the sooner they will find true fulfillment—not just in relationships but in life itself. No study needed. Just common sense.

In summary: men are life. Men are the original creators, and women? Well, we're the five-star hotels where these creations transubstantiate into little humans. We incubate. Period. Now go forth, spread the enlightenment, and give thanks to the testicular gods. Again, without them, you wouldn't even be here.

Ah, the age-old battle of who truly gives life—the vessel or the creator? Brace yourselves, ladies, because science is here to deflate your egos. Aaaaaaand here we go. . . Independence is often confused with arrogance and many women have strayed far from a fundamental truth—we need men and men need to feel validated and respected. Whether he is your boyfriend, fiancé, or husband, a man thrives in an environment where he is acknowledged, supported, and honored as the leader of his homestead, the king of the theoretical castle.

And in addition to being our testicular titans and undisputed architects of life, they've have been tasked with being the prominent head of households. And their contributions to it shouldn't be undermined or unappreciated for without a man, you wouldn't even be alive. This status has to be addressed before anything else: men give life, hands down.

The seminiferous tubules in their testicles produce sperm through spermatogenesis, and these little swimmers don't just roll off the assembly line ready for action. No, they need a finishing school—the epididymis—where they mature before embarking on their epic journey. Upon ejaculation, millions of sperm are unleashed, yet only one lucky gladiator gets to fuse with an egg, thus sparking the miracle of life. That means conception hinges entirely on the health, mobility, and sheer potency of male sperm, while the egg is just chilling, waiting to be activated like a dormant app. (This should all be common knowledge, but unfortunately morons exist, and simple things have to be explained. Anyways, moving right along,) . . .

Ladies, I hear you loud and clear: “But we carry the baby!” Yes, and everyone commends your uterus for its role as the world’s most exclusive Airbnb. However, let's be clear—nurturing a pregnancy does not equate to originating life. If men stopped producing sperm, the entire human race would cease to exist, whereas if women stopped ovulating, science (think artificial wombs and surrogates) would keep the baby-making train rolling.

But all too often, instead of embracing these dynamics, modern women have developed a habit of prancing around with an unnecessary mean demeanor, spewing out harsh words and flaunting aggressive mannerisms as if disrespect equals strength. Let’s be clear—this attitude gets you nowhere fast. In fact, some of you are already there: loudly and proudly proclaiming your “independence” while conveniently living off a system designed to support you. That mindset? It’s self-destructive and basically ensures that you die alone. Marriage, Cohabitation, relationships or motherhood is a purposeful contribution to enrich your life and of those around you.

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